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Episode 031: Even If: Healing After Tragedy

When bad things happen it's easy to rely on coping mechanisms and go into survival mode just to make it through. However, most times the coping mechanisms and survival mode mentality can easily become part of how we deal with life in general. We stay in survival mode to a certain extent. So when do you heal from those adverse events in your life??

What if you could learn how to cope in a healthy way that could help you stop negative, harmful thoughts and behaviors before they start? What if you don't have to feel alone, afraid or abandoned?

If any of this resonates with your heart, then this episode is for you!
I'm sharing with you the methods I have used to heal from past and recent tragedy. We'll be conquering survival mode coping mechanisms like:

  • Internalization (6:37)
  • Negative Emotions and Thoughts (8:07)
  • Unhealthy Habits/ Destructive Behavior (10:45)


You can pave your road to healing and peace with my Thrive Framework and Path to Peace:

Take every thought captive and combat negative emotions and thoughts: (12:02)

  •    Is it true?
  •    What does God say in His Word?
  •    Rebuke and Reverse
  •    Check Your Gates
  •    Trust Check
  •    Where has God brought you from?
  •    Feast and immerse in God's word


Restore peace in the midst of chaos: (29:11)

  •    Power in Prayer: Meet God in the throne room
  •    Immerse yourself in Truth: Read or Listen to God's word
  •    Change your atmosphere: Plug in some praise and worship music
  •    De-scatter the inner chatter: Get the negative thoughts out of your brain through           journaling, vlogging or monologging.
  •    Call the Calvary: Reach out to your trusted prayer partners.


Jesus doesn't want you to stay in the pain of your past. Through Him you can experience the healing and peace promised in His Word! It's your turn now!

Golden nuggets from this episode:

"And because of that, I need to trust God, and to trust that He's got plans for me that I may not know of right now. And there's ways that He needs to prepare me that I don't understand right now, because I don't see the place where He's taking me yet. Because He needs me right where I am, to prepare me for that."

"when you submit to God, then you're saying, God, Invest in me."



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